Seduction Simplified: How to Build an Attractive Personality Through Personal Development to Attract Women by Muhlenberg German & Muhlenberg German

Author:Muhlenberg, German & Muhlenberg, German [Muhlenberg, German]
Language: eng
Format: epub, azw3
Publisher: Germán Mühlenberg
Published: 2017-02-11T16:00:00+00:00

Chapter Fifteen

Deep understanding of conversation

When we talk about frame, we are talking about context. A frame is the stage where a certain situation takes place. It gives meaning to its content. For example, the phrase “Let’s do it!” will mean different things according to the situation we are in. If I am at work, then I may be referring to fulfilling a certain task; if I am in the kitchen, to preparing a meal; if I am in a football field, to playing a match; if I am in bed, to sex.

When we misinterpret a message, it is because, although we understand the words we were told, we are oblivious as to their context or frame. Text messages are often misunderstood because the person who receives the message misses the intended tone and can't interpret the words based on body language..

Depending on the context, questions, and even words, can have many different meanings. For instance, the question “How was it?” may refer to as many things as a game, a meal, a massage, or a kiss. As was explained before, the context will give meaning to each word. If we have just finished eating and someone asks how it was, it may be inferred that it is the meal they are asking about.

Therefore, if the meaning of words varies according to the frame they are inserted in, whoever has control over the frame will have control over the conversation. Control over the frame is subject to variations, even if the events the frame contains happened in one single place, belonged to a single situation, or always involved the same participants. The control over the frame can change hands. Trials present a good example of this, since counsel and prosecutor struggle to gain control of the frame, that it is, to establish whether the defendant is guilty or innocent. Another example could be a super sexy twenty-one year-old girl: her level of control over the frame won’t be the same when with a man in a nightclub, as when working as a secretary. As was said before, the frame provides context. Ultimately, in love, business, trials, sales, or any other area, victory will be achieved by whoever plays the frame in their own favor.

One frequently hears questions such as, “Is it okay if I get her flowers?”, “Is it okay if I call her after just two days?”, “Is it okay if I let her know I’m interested?” . It all depends on the frame, the state of affairs. Does she like flowers? Have we known her for long? Will this mean a great deal to her? Technically, we could go against everything that has ever been recommended in a book on seduction and still be successful with women.

This will be on account of having played the frame in our favor. In an exchange with a girl, it is important to have a strong dominion over the frame, to convey our identity, behavior, and sexual desire. But it is also important not to try to impose our own frame, or to go out of our way to always have control.

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